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Some physical movement can help..walking, qi Gung or journaling can ensure 'I get it out'.

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Oh, I wish, I wish. Maybe next year. :)

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This topic is timely, but my issue is slightly different. I'm a triathlete and most of the time before a big race, I get "race anticipatory anxiety" the night before, which prevents me from getting the sleep I need to do well in the race. It's a vicious cycle. Is there research on this particular kind of anxiety?

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This is definitely up my alley. Yesterday, I read a scientific paper on the power off positive thinking yesterday, and it was helpful to see a solid foundation for using positive thinking to overcome anxiety (GAD).

One way I try to distract myself from worry is to watch comedians on a free video platform. It's hilarious, because I am very mentally ill and in extreme physical pain, so, as I laugh at the comedy, I'm also hurting more, haha. BUT - I am no longer worrying.

I have more anticipatory anxiety over important tasks than over other things, which I think is related to perfectionism. ADHD and an issue with "executive function" may be related to this. I'm not sure.

Thanks for your great advice! Now, I just need to follow it all...

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You can distract yourself or do the opposite: Really lean into the anxiety. Upon close inspection, you'll see the anxiety dissipate, as all emotions eventually do.

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My problem is quite the opposite. I don’t worry and then things are usually worse than what I anticipated.

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Love this -- and needed it!

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